YWRB: Truth

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By Amanda Page I will always choose truth.

Even now, years past slumber party angst and antics, I prefer the subjective, nuanced, very dangerous truth.

In my youth, truth was confession. I'd offer up my flaws, my mistakes, my humiliations. My sin from simply being human---those were the only truths available. Certainly, I was full to the brim with that type of truth.  I had plenty of that type of truth to spare. I believed in offering it up, chasing it away, making it leave my body through my mouth and be judged by others. I didn't want it as my own.

As I've aged, I've witnessed maturity in my truth. My truth is no longer an open wound. It has healed, slowly, through years of claiming itself. My truth is owned. I do not borrow it. I simply believe it.

It differs in eyes that aren't mine. If I were to offer it up, then you might see a shade darker or lighter than what I insist is present. There is such a thing as a true red, but I might think it's crimson while another chooses firetruck or candy apple. If I decide my true red is the red of flames and fire, then that, my friend, is the truth I choose once again.

The truth doesn't expose us. It doesn't excuse us or even explain us.

We don't need a game to reveal it.

Although, the game might build a friendship. It might offer insight into someone unexpected. It might twist your truth until you see it take a different shape. It's still your truth.

Dare to own it.

 

Amanda Page

I’m a Columbus-based writer from southern Ohio. My work has appeared in Belt Magazine, The Daily Yonder, 100 Days in Appalachia, and Lithub. I designed a downtown tour of Frank Packard architecture and then wrote an essay about it called, “The Packard Presence in Columbus, Ohio,” that was included in Midwest Architecture Journeys from Belt Publishing. I’m also the editor of The Columbus Anthology in the Belt City Series, but the Columbus addition to the collection was co-published with The Ohio State University Press. I’m the founder and executive director of Scioto Literary, a nonprofit organization that supports writers and storytellers in the tri-state region of Ohio, Kentucky, and West Virginia. I’m currently at work on a documentary called “Peerless City,” that explores the history of Portsmouth, Ohio through three distinct city slogans in use in the city over two centuries.